All of us at Playdate Kids Publishing wish you and yours a Happy Holiday Season. For all of you who celebrate Christmas, we hope that Santa Claus brought magic and joy into your homes on Christmas morning.

Looking forward to a new year filled with laughter, love and hope.

With kind regards,

The Playdate Kids Publishing Team

Why Should Parents Use Self-Help Books for Their Kids?

Sure, life is difficult as an adult, but who ever said being a kid was easy?

Children may be seemingly carefree but when life’s rollercoaster goes from its climb down to the drop, kids need support more than adults. Children face a number of life challenges in their day to day lives such as a divorce of their parents, a sick family member, a new baby in the family (yes, even this is a difficult life challenge for many young children), child abuse, death of a pet and more. It is imperative that parents and guardians do everything they can to talk the young children through the life process and establish an open line of communication and a haven for support.

The worst thing a parent or guardian can do in a time of family crisis—minor or major, is ignore the situation, pretend it is not happening or lie. Children need to be given all the information about a situation in an easy to understand, digestible manner. Their feelings and psyche should be taken into careful consideration—however, they should never be lied to or else the trust between you and the child can be forever lost. Children can carry feelings of anger, sadness or resentment if they ever find out that their parent or their guardian has lied about something of remote importance.

How do self-help books help?

Self-help books can assist the situation as a crutch or guide. The books show the child that they are not alone in their situation and that other kids and families go through similar issues and most importantly—get through it. These books exemplify each situation in the best light so that children can see a positive outlook on their own situation— and be given hope and tools for coping. Self-help books that are written by a doctor offer medical advice based on years of proven experience, research and testing. They are almost as good as sitting in the doctor’s office and having a conversation about the problem. In fact, many doctors use books in their own practice.

Playdate Kids Publishing offers books on a variety of subjects that are written specifically to young children between the ages of three and six. The books offer children friendly, non-intimidating, non-threatening storylines blended with loveable characters who show acts of kindness, intelligence, manners and sympathy. The Playdate Kids become a friend to the reader—offering a support system through early literacy edutainment.

When the going gets tough—The Playdate Kids offer a helping hand.

This holiday season, give your family a present that will last a lifetime- a new family tradition. It is important that your children know Christmas is more than a gift exchange, more than just one day to spend with family; Christmas is a time of tradition. Counting down the days until Christmas with an advent calendar, using old family recipes for the holiday dinner, or sitting by the fire singing Christmas carols are just some traditions that have been passed down from one generation to the next. Unfortunately, some families may not have memorable traditions, or feel their traditions are too outdated to continue- such as the annual fruitcake loaf. Fortunately, it is never too late to begin a holiday tradition of your own.

A few great traditions to share with your children could include baking cookies, making ornaments, creating a “giving tree,” or designing your own wrapping paper. For example, while you are baking cookies for Santa Claus, decorate the Christmas tree together as a family. The sugary smell of cookies baking in the oven, and the feeling of togetherness brought by decorating the tree as a family is what your children will remember as an adults and share with families of their own.

You can try making ornaments each year with your family. These ornaments can be as simple or as elaborate as you desire. Seashells and glitter or cardboard and macaroni are all the material you need for easy to make and inexpensive ornaments. If you are not the “crafty” type, purchase a new ornament for each of your children. The best ornaments to buy have the year engraved or printed on them. Then, when your children are grown and have their own first Christmas tree, they will have their own personal and memorable ornaments to hang on the tree.
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Another suggestion for a family tradition is start a “giving tree”. Designate an area in your home for donations such as canned food, toys, or clothes. During the holiday season charities make their presence especially visible, therefore it should not be hard to find a number of charities in your area. Better yet, find a church in your area that serves a Christmas meal to the needy and offer to cook a dish for them. The hands on act of cooking will fully engage your children in the giving process.

Another great idea is to purchase a roll of white wrapping paper for each member of your family. Set out markers, crayons, glitter, glue, stickers, ribbon, and such. Then have each family member create designs for their wrapping paper. This gives gift giving a fun and personal touch, as well as creating fun family time.

Whatever traditions you hold dear or chose to begin remember, it is the traditions carried out during the holiday season that your children will remember for a lifetime. Yes, presents are a wonderful way of showing love and appreciation, and of course, your children will be ecstatic to receive the latest toys available. Just remember, Christmas is so much more than material gifts, so give your children a present that will last a lifetime, and spend some traditional quality time with them.

By Amy Mosshart
M. Loring Communications